The Prism Mindset Approach

I advise based on what I call the "prism mindset" - I observe situations through multiple lenses until clarity emerges, and then reframe them. Like a prism (like.. a crystal!) revealing the full spectrum within a beam of light, I illuminate the complete range of perspectives within your situation, before pivoting to a new framework of understanding.

I don't build egos from first principles or hold hands through changes. I’m here to inspire (bonus if you inspire me too).

If you are seeking someone who’s enthusiastic but matter of fact, detached but not depersonalized, analytical but not cold, I’m your girl. For a shadow work approach that uses keen pattern recognition to uncover the bigger picture—without prescribing solutions—hire me to help you with…

  • Understanding others' perspectives in conflicts when traditional empathy approaches have failed

  • Moving past decision paralysis by illuminating blind spots in your thinking

  • Creating warm but structured boundaries that serve rather than isolate

  • Diffusing tension by naming the unspoken dynamics in relationships

  • Unraveling complex patterns in both past and present relationships that still influence you

  • Unraveling the deeper narratives behind "resolved" but still emotionally charged situations

You'll Benefit Most From Working With Me If You:

  • Have previous experience with therapy or self-development work

  • Are self-motivated and seeking clarity rather than motivation

  • Want to deeply understand relationship patterns without being told what to do

  • Are analytical, introspective, and action-oriented

  • Can openly and thoughtfully answer questions like "What's a common misconception about you?" or "What are you exploring right now that excites you?"

A Note on Working Together Long-Term 

While I offer one-off perspective-shifting sessions, long-term relationships work best when we mutually excite each other intellectually. If you watch my YouTube videos, read my tweets, and think we'd get along—let me know.